I'm like no girl he's ever met...

Most girls would take the phrase "you're like no girl I've ever met" as a compliment right? Well apparently I'm like no girl Ross has ever met and it wasn't met as a compliment. Let me explain....

So as mentioned in my previous post about eHarm guy Ross, he's needy and emotional when it comes to his desire for contact from me. Which is definitely not me.... well last night this topic came up and let's just say it ended with him calling my bluff and me actually following through with walking out of his house and into my car. Needless to say, he was shocked I did that. Again, not like any girl he's ever dated... this will become a theme. Just watch.

Here are the key points as to not make this blog painfully long... we go bowling (in Poway (non SD locals... that's about 20-30 minutes from SD proper)) and have sushi dinner and have SO MUCH FUN laughing and just joking around. All of a sudden he goes...

"so you're not very attentive to texts are you?"
"um whaaaat?" (Caught completely off guard and thinking no no no noottttt here nooootttt nowwwww)
"You don't respond to my texts or calls all the time very quick, you must not be much of a texter, right?" 

Now at this point, smart me would have been like "oh nope so weird" but then he'd call more and that's just tragic so I said "oh well yeah I do text a lot but you have to understand where I'm coming from...."

At this point we're standing int the parking lot of Poway Fun Bowl and chatting about my dating past and how it's recent blah blah blah (not trying to scare him off, but give him context) and he accepts it, thanks me for telling him and then I go "you know what Ross, I'm an open book, ask what you'd like." 

All the way home and for a good 45 minutes in his apartment he practically interrogates me....which I'm cool with, whatever, but then he says it's my turn (FINALLY!) 

So I ask some basic background dating questions and the like and about 15 minutes in he's like "wow this is really becoming like a job interview" Me, caught off guard again since wasn't I the one who was just interrogated for over an hour? (the answer is 'yes' to that question ps) but I go "okay wow I'm sorry you feel that way" and then go on to tell him I'm the type of person with thick skin and you can just tell me when you don't like something, I'm a big girl.

This is when I get the "you're like no girl I've ever dated... you're not emotional at all" Well buddy that's wrong I am emotional but I'm not want YOU want... So it goes south from here where he digs at my getting an MBA (again, yes again) and so I go "so it obviously is something that bugs you, are you okay with someone you're dating getting their MBA?" and that's when he practically loses it with defensiveness and I cut it off and say

"alright I think it's time for me to go...." 
"no I'm sorry no don't leave stay" 
"no I think it's a good time for us to call it a night... I'm going to leave." 

At this time I take my purse and leave while he's still sitting on the couch, calling my bluff. Not happening. I walk to my car, get in it and start it when I see him running out of his complex telling me to stop and saying again "you're just not like anyone I've ever dated..." (My thoughts... I GET IT ALREADY!)

Needless to say it ended with me leaving it up to him if I see him again and here's the 24hr later update... he texts back when texted... sooo it's left there...

Shout out though to my awesome roommate who totally gets me and understands us "unemotional girls" aka girls with career drive and not desperate to be baby machines and wives asap... we had a great laugh about this date over fro yo tonight after class... which ps I'm now MAYOR of Cup of Yo... yessireeee!

I digress... anyways, yeah so chalk it up to being the weird one and being okay with it!

Until next time...